sicklyjewel wrote:
Why did people here feel the need to be so pretentious and condescending when responding to RonB?
Part of it is because we've seen this kind of person before: They come in and act like they know better, but have no knowledge or experience of the past, thus they don't know why we're on the current road/path that we're on.
There are a few simple things that people can do to avoid this kind of response. First, you could (as I suggested above) do some research on the topic. You can look around the forums and find posts about the
why things are for many of the Commander rules. If you can't find them, then you can always take the second option: ask about things. So instead of coming in and saying "Hey, I think things should change - here's what I want to have changed" a slight change in attitude of "Hey, I think thinks should be different, so why are they the way they currently are?" is a significant difference, and will be met with a much different form of response from other posters.
Take a look at (one of) Panphage's first posts:
http://mtgcommander.net/forum/viewtopic.php?p=237098#p237098 ... you can see the reception is much different.
But in RonB's case, he continued to show a complete lack of knowledge about the ban list, but wanting to continue talking about it. For those know do know some of the reasoning behind the various bans, it's incredibly frustrating. Doubly so because 90%+ of the information is available on these forums and can be found with a bit of searching.
We have a fair share of people here who have differing opinions on any number of topics - but the older posters here have the experience with the cards they are talking about (which is granted much easier for cards you want banned such as Iona or Tooth & Nail, than for banned cards) and they don't devolve their arguments to "[so] my opinion is wrong because I don't agree with you." Also, most (I'm pretty sure not all) regular posters here try to read the whole reply that someone gives when wanting to debate things here, and RonB seemed to read the first bit of a reply and then carry on.
To sum up, there are reasonable ways to disagree with people here and there are unreasonable ways. RonB took the latter route and many people here don't like that, so it impacts the tone of how they post replies.